Face Fear to Create Success
F.E.A.R. = Frightful Events And Reconnecting
Many times unkind words of others, and bad experiences lead to self-doubt. The doubt leads to being stalemated on what you really want to accomplish. In turn, you have no idea of how or where to begin to get past this.
The best advice I’ve heard is to reconnect with your fear. How did it first arise, what were the events leading to it and what happened in the process? Once you can sort this out, you may more easily move beyond.
I know the corporate world beats many of us up, trying to diminish our independence and creative thought so not to make waves. It’s important to reconnect with your self to get beyond what transpired in the past.
Your next step might be to consider with whom you connect both personally and professionally. Are you with supportive people who offer good ideas or are you in an environment where people do not appreciate your success? It’s very important to surround yourself with positive minded people and move your mood from doubt to a positive outlook. Remind yourself of all that you have accomplished in your life. Even if you are young, surely you must have done something of which you are proud.
Keep reminding yourself of past accomplishments and your unique talents. When going on interviews or business meetings with prospects and clients, just prior remind yourself of all of this. Be in a great frame of mind, energetic and certain to smile.
These steps will help you to do well on the interview to hear, HIRED! and well in your meeting to be reminded Nice Girls DO Get the Sale: Relationship Building That Gets Results. The two links are to the books I wrote providing more insight on how to achieve your goals.
Please let me know how I may assist you. My mission is to always help you achieve the Smooth Sale!
